Why I’m Single – It’s not me, it’s you.

Several men have asked me, in the last five years, “why are you single?” They say it with lust and longing in their eyes and it usually comes with a ‘compliment’ like “you’re so hot”.  I smile back sweetly and say that I don’t know why.   What I would actually like to say is: “dude… your’re a fine example.  You’re salivating, I earn more than you and the things you say about your girlfriend/women makes me want to vomit.

I have started this blog because I have been single for five years.  I have had some entertaining, heartbreaking and valuable learning experiences that I think is well worth sharing, plus it gives me something to do on my dateless Saturday nights.

At times, I may come across as bitter, I may offend your sense of idealality (this is a word I made up, it’s pretty much the opposite of reality). If this happens, I urge you to comment, argue and express your views unapologetically – I am a rare breed that does not get offended easily by others’ views, in fact you most likely will be apart of my personal growth. Just no personal attacks please (unless it is warranted )

I’m starting with my first love, Indy. He was such a kind soul, and in this relationship, I was the dick – not him. This is the one and only blog that the man will not get full and total blame.

Indy was a Gothic when I met him, we were flatmates and connected immediately.  I loved him deeply and he always did anything for me, including facing up to the barriers I created through being unwell.

I bumped into him on the Wellington waterfront a couple of weeks ago, he hasn’t changed except for having two beautiful children , that he loves.

Tune in for a weekly, entertaining blog on a single woman’s dating ups and downs.

xo

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